dirstate._nonnormalset has been moved to dirstate._map.nonnormalset by
60927b19ed65 (dirstate: move nonnormal and otherparent sets to dirstatemap)
and is guaranteed to be existed.
Let's update fsmonitor code to use the new nonnormalset. Thix fixed a perf
regression that slows down hg status by 0.5 seconds in one of our
production repos.
ah, I think we do need to keep this code path for the fresh instance case, otherwise we won't know how to resync with the world