We previously prevented the creation of doublepipe instances when
we're not supposed to automatically read from stderr. However,
there were other automatic calls to read from stderr that were
undermining this effort.
This commit prevents all automatic reads from stderr from occurring
when they are supposed to be disabled.
Because stderr is no longer being read, we need to call "readavailable"
from tests so stderr is read from.
Test output changes because stderr is now always (manually) read after
stdout. And, since sshpeer no longer automatically tends to stderr,
no "remote: " messages are printed. This should fix non-deterministic
test output.
FWIW, doublepipe automatically reads from stderr when reading from
stdout, so I'm not sure some of these calls to self._readerr() are
even needed.